What it Means to Wear DD’s
Women spend their entire lives nipping, tucking, enlarging and adjusting at least one or more body parts. Why do we torment ourselves with this mindless act of vanity? I’ll tell you why, because we value what men say or think about us. To hell with our intellect or ambition, we’re more interested in what you think about our bodies.
On average, Americans spend over fifteen billion dollars each year on cosmetic surgery and women dominate half of the reported cases. This is sad!
It’s sad because the men your nipping and tucking to impress are probably not worth the gum on the bottom of your shoe!
Meanwhile, there’s a trail of big-booty, big-breast women who are still #singleAF despite the astronomical surgical fee spent adjusting their bodies. Or even worse you spend thousands of dollars on plastic surgery and still get cheated by a man, So now what?
Not saying the reason woman consider cosmetic surgery is because of a man, but let’s be honest here. The majority of woman seeking the knife are likely pursuing male attention. Seemingly, there’s nothing wrong with male attention. It’s healthy and a precursor for dating, but becomes jagged when your spending huge amounts of money changing your image into something you feel will be better received by the male ego.
If a man truly likes you, he will accept you for who you are and vise-versa. I know that sounds like a retired cliche. But think about it. Before the social media boom changed the way you feel about yourself, the divorce rate for married couples was ten-times lower than today’s statistics.
Something to think about right?
Getting back to the boobs; Like entertainer Sophie Mei, I’m a natural DD. No implants, no surgery, just big-ass breasts. Yet, secretly, I’ve occasionally wished for the convenience of a B-cup.
Why a B-cup?
Ladies who wear B or even C-cup’s don’t know the complexity involved searching for a swimwear with a supportive bra. Because your girls need the reinforcement, any cheap, flimsy, beachwear simply won’t do.
What it means to wear a DD? It means your breast will weigh on average of five to six pounds per boob. Try jogging, jumping jacks or a relay race with those numbers.
On the flip side, I can wear a sexy-plunged neckline and command attention from the entire room, women and men. Other times a mere T-shirt and DD’s will send the wrong signal.
Don’t get me wrong, I love my boobs. Their natural, and belong to me. Maybe that’s the key to acceptance, its learning to appreciate the gifted body you were blessed with. Whether little boobs, little-ass, or big-boobs and big-ass, love yourself first.
Because here’s the deal, if your broke from the inside, a shiny-pair of breasts or butt implants isn’t going to fix your emotional status. Which is exactly what’s happening in our superficial society. We’re busy trying to fix the outer instead of the inner person.
Interim, it’s every mothers job to groom their daughters to be self supportive and spiritually healthy. And If you haven’t prepped your daughter to be a head-strong individual, shame on you; Society will capsize on her emotional shortcoming and eat her alive.
I’ve raised my daughter to be a confident woman and although her body may not compare to girl XYZ, its because she’s not girl XYZ. So stop the comparison will you! Just as every person has their own unique DNA, so we have our own unique body structure. You can either deal with the body you have by learning to love yourself or you can choose to deny your body, substituting it for plastic or silicone. Either way the decision is yours, what’s it going to be?
